Can I file a legal case against a harassing ex-husband
Recently updated on April 18th, 2025 at 11:17 pm
If you’re dealing with harassment from an ex-husband in Florida, you have several legal options to protect yourself:
Option 1 Get a Domestic Violence Injunction (Restraining Order)
If the harassment includes threats, stalking, or violence (or a credible threat of violence), you can file for a Domestic Violence Injunction (DVI). You don’t need to have a current relationship; past domestic violence or reasonable fear of harm is enough. This order can require the ex-husband to stay away from you, your home, workplace, and even prevent contact via phone, text, or social media.
How to get a Domestic Violence Injunction
Step 2: Gather Evidence (You can upload it online)
Step 2: Gather Supporting Evidence
Start by gathering evidence to support your case. For a Florida Domestic Violence Injunction, here are some examples to help you organize, though any relevant proof can be used.
You can also get help from government agencies or non profits assisting victims of domestic violence such as Florida Department of Children and Families. Some police departments also have Victim Advocate Services.
Criminal Case
A criminal case in progress shows that the district attorney also found evidence of the abuse or crimes and therefore supports your claims.
Photos
Photos of violence, injuries, damage
Messages
Print outs of messages, emails or transcripts of voicemail
911 Calls
For each call document the phone numbers, date, time, caller, and callee details
Medical Records
Documentation of any medical emergencies or injuries or treatments resulting from abuser's violence.
Police Report
Police reports filed against abuser for domestic violence.
Testimony
A testimony from a witness who can be a family member, neighbor a co-worker or a bystander, either in writing or in person at the hearing, describing the incidents witnessed.
Step 3: Prepare the Official Court Forms
Step 3: Prepare the Official Court Forms
You can fill these online for free.
Explore Court Forms Online
In order to apply for a Domestic Violence Injunction (DVI), you need to fill and submit a specific set of official Florida court forms. These have questions aimed at understanding your situation and the people involved.
Step 4: File with the Court
Step 4: File your paperwork with the Court
In Florida, you file for a Domestic Violence Injunction in the Circuit Court of the county where you live, or where you were abused, or where your abuser lives. Typically these are the same for domestic violence situations but you can select any of the counties to file at, in case these are different.
Method # 1: By visiting the court house
Your court location would accept the forms to be submitted in person at the court hours.
Tip: All courts have lunch hours when they are closed for an hour
When you submit your case documents at the court, typically you take 3 copies.
The clerks reviews it, and if everything is ok, they formally enter it into the court system and put a stamp near the top of the documents. That acceptance is called filing.
Method # 2: E-file online
This is the most efficient option if you have an email address and basic computer skills, such as creating an account and uploading PDF files. Some counties now offer one or more online portals where you can create a free account, upload documents, and submit them with just a few clicks. However, you will need to pay certain online service fees.
Method # 3: Via another person
Some counties accept filing via a friend or legal courier. These companies or individuals charge a flat or hourly fee and file the documents at the court.
Step 5: Judge Grant/Deny Temporary Domestic Violence Injunction (DVI)
Step 5: Judge Grant/Deny Temporary Injunction
Once your paperwork is officially filed, a judge will review your application, typically on the same day, and decide whether to issue the Temporary Domestic Violence Injunction DVI to provide coverage until the full hearing.
Possible outcomes are:
- Temporary Injunction Granted. In this case a hearing is always set
- Temporary Injunction Denied. In this situation in most cases a hearing is set. However there are cases where the evidence submitted upfront is not strong enough, and the case is dismissed If .
The temporary order (if issued) is valid until the hearing i.e. typically about 3 weeks. If the hearing is delayed for any reason, you need to check with the court to ensure the temporary order is renewed until the hearing to provide you with legal protection.
Step 6: Serve a set of Stamped Case Forms including Hearing Notice to Abuser
Step 6: Serve FILED Case Documents to Abuser
Whenever a victim starts a Domestic Violence Injunction case they need to inform or serve the other party formally by delivering the court documents. That step is called serving the respondent.
In Florida, for a Domestic Violence Injunction (DVI), the other party (the respondent) must be served with the court order, which informs them that a Temporary Domestic Violence Injunction has been issued and provides details about the upcoming court hearing.
Under the Florida law there are multiple ways in which the other party can be served.
You cannot serve your papers yourself.
Option 1: Ask the Sheriff (FREE)
In most counties, the sheriff’s office is responsible for serving the respondent. This is the standard method and is often free of charge for domestic violence cases.
Option 2: Hire a legal courier (Process Server)
You can also hire a courier called professional process server. You can search on Yelp or Google to get a list of options near you.
You cannot hire regular couriers such as UPS, FedEx or US Postal Service unless in exceptional scenarios where the judge authorizes service by mail, but that's a whole different topic altogether.
Step 7: Present Evidence in a Court Hearing
Step 7: Present Evidence in a Court Hearing
Attend a hearing: The court holds a hearing within a couple of weeks where the evidence is examined. If there is sufficient supporting evidence as determined by a Judge, a full injunction is issued. At this point it becomes a crime for the abuser to break the conditions of the injunction (restraining order).
Step 8. Collect the Final Domestic Violence Injunction order
Step 8. Collect the Final Domestic Violence Injunction order
After the hearing, a final order may be issued. You can take a paper copy of the order with you. The order is typically valid for five years.
Option 2: Report Physical harm, or cyberstalking to Police/Law Enforcement
If he is harassing you via texts, emails, social media, or other electronic means, Florida law considers cyberstalking a crime. You can report it to law enforcement, and it may lead to criminal charges.
Stalking and Cyberstalking
In Florida, if you are being stalked in person or online, you should immediately call 911 if you feel in danger, and then file a police report with your local law enforcement agency, or consider obtaining a restraining order (injunction for protection) through the courts.
Stalking including Cyberstalking is a crime in Florida defined in Statute § 784.048 and the following explain the two different levels of seriousness of the crime, with felony being more severe with greater punishments.
- Misdemeanor Stalking:
- If your ex-husband repeatedly follows, harasses, or cyberstalks you, it’s a first-degree misdemeanor. Similarly Sending repeated online messages, emails, or social media posts intended to harass, intimidate, or threaten you can result in stalking charges. Misdemeanor is punishable by up to 1 year in jail and fines.
- Aggravated Stalking (Felony): If he makes a credible threat, violates a restraining order, or targets you after a prior conviction, it’s a third-degree felony (punishable by up to 5 years in prison and higher fines).
Harassing Phone Calls (Florida Statute § 365.16)
If he makes repeated phone calls with the intent to annoy, abuse, threaten, or harass, it’s a misdemeanor crime.
Physical violence or threats
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If the harassment includes physical violence, Statute § 741.28 , threats of harm, Statute § 836.10, such as to kill or bodily harm are both crimes and can be reported to the law enforcement.
Violation of Existing Restraining Order (Florida Statute § 741.31)
If you have a Domestic Violence Injunction (DVI) or Stalking Injunction, and he contacts you, follows you, or harasses you, he can be arrested immediately and would face criminal charges. Florida law (Statute § 741.31) allows for immediate arrest if the violation includes
- Physical violence or threats
- Being at a prohibited location (home, workplace, school, etc.)
- Repeated or aggressive contact
Option 3: Civil Lawsuit for Emotional Distress
If the harassment is severe, you may be able to sue for intentional infliction of emotional distress.
Benefits of a Civil Lawsuit Over a Restraining Order
Factor | Civil Lawsuit for Emotional Distress | Restraining Order (Injunction) |
---|---|---|
Main Purpose | Seeks financial compensation for emotional harm | Seeks legal protection from harassment, threats, or abuse |
What It Can Do | – Can award money damages (for therapy, lost wages, suffering) – Holds the ex financially accountable |
– Legally forces the ex to stay away – Prevents contact and sets boundaries |
Legal Consequences for Ex | – No criminal charges unless laws were broken – Only affects finances |
– Violating it is a crime (can lead to arrest) – Can limit access to children/home |
Proving the Case | Requires strong evidence (medical records, witness statements, severe distress) | Easier to obtain if there’s a pattern of harassment or threats |
Time & Cost | Can take months or years, involves legal fees | Free to file, faster (can get a temporary order in days) |
Likelihood of Success | Harder to win due to high legal standard | Easier if there’s harassment, stalking, or threats |
When Civil Lawsuit is better
- If you want financial compensation for therapy costs, lost income, or pain and suffering.
- If the harassment was extreme and ongoing (not just minor annoyances).
- If a restraining order isn’t enough because the ex doesn’t pose a physical threat but caused significant harm.
When a Restraining Order Is Better
- If you fear for your safety and need immediate legal protection.
- If your ex is stalking, threatening, or harassing you.
- If you want a faster and more enforceable solution.
Resources
Here’s a list of government agencies that assist victims of domestic violence in Florida
🛡️ Florida State Agencies and Programs
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Florida Department of Children and Families – Domestic Violence Program
Oversees certified domestic violence centers across the state and coordinates services. -
Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence (FCADV) (formerly the official partner; now redirected to DCF after state oversight changes)
Formerly managed programs and training. Current services are through DCF’s direct oversight. -
Florida Legal Services – Domestic Violence Resources
Offers legal assistance and advocacy for survivors of abuse. -
Florida Courts – Domestic Violence Forms & Resources
Provides court forms, procedural info, and access to local self-help centers. -
Florida Department of Law Enforcement (FDLE) – Domestic Violence Data & Services
Maintains statistics and public safety programs related to domestic violence.
🏛️ Federal Agencies
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Office on Violence Against Women (OVW) – U.S. Department of Justice
Administers grant programs and supports local and state efforts to combat domestic violence. -
National Domestic Violence Hotline (Federally funded)
Provides 24/7 support and resources: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). -
Administration for Children and Families (ACF) – Family and Youth Services Bureau (FYSB)
Funds domestic violence shelters and support programs through the Family Violence Prevention and Services Act (FVPSA).
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