If I don’t know where the abuser lives can I still get a restraining order in California?

Yes, you can still get a restraining order in California even if you don’t know the abuser’s current address. However, serving the restraining order to the abuser is required for it to take effect, so here are some steps that can help in this situation:

1. File the Restraining Order: You can file for a restraining order without knowing the abuser’s address. This website can help you complete the paperwork and explain the next steps.
2. Service of Process: For the restraining order to be enforceable, the abuser must be “served” (officially notified). If you don’t know their address, you have a few options:
   • Personal Service by Law Enforcement: In some cases, the court may have law enforcement assist with serving the order if you can provide other known locations the abuser frequents, like their workplace or a relative’s address.
   • Alternative Service: If traditional methods fail, California courts may allow alternative service methods, like publishing a notice in a local newspaper, under certain conditions. You’d need to show the court that you made a diligent effort to locate the abuser.
3. Request a Continuance: If you need time to locate the abuser, you can ask the court for a continuance, which means rescheduling the hearing to give you more time to attempt service.
4. Temporary Restraining Order (TRO): The court can issue a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) before the abuser is served, which lasts until your court hearing date. This TRO can help provide immediate protection while you work on locating the abuser.
5. Seek Help from an Advocate: Local domestic violence agencies or legal aid organizations can help you navigate this process, as they often have experience with cases where the abuser’s location is unknown.

In summary, while it’s necessary to serve the abuser for the restraining order to take full effect, there are ways to work with the court to get protection even if you don’t know where they live.